You can’t cheat on someone and then afterwards blame everyone else for YOUR CHOICE to cheat on someone who loved and trusted you!
You can’t blame the person you cheated with.
And you can’t blame the person you cheated on.
It was YOUR decision!
It’s a reflection of who YOU are!
You can’t cheat on someone and then try and blame-shift by playing the victim!
You can’t cheat on someone and then call yourself respectful afterwards.
You can’t cheat on someone and then say that you have good, honest, decent morals and values afterwards.
You can’t cheat on someone and then call yourself an empath afterwards.
You can’t cheat on someone and then say that your actions hold integrity afterwards.
You can’t cheat on someone and then say you’re filled with kindness afterwards.
You can’t cheat on someone and expect to get away with it by continuing to lie to others and by continuing to lie to yourself about who you really are.
Because YOUR actions have shown who you really are!
So don’t think that by running away, or creating a false story as a deflection from your bad behaviour, or by avoiding contact altogether, that someone won’t find out what you did…
They know!
And no, you haven’t gotten away with it…
Because understand this; that person who loved you with every piece of them and who would have done anything for you that you cheated on,
they were much more than you deserved!
And now, it’s going to hurt you to no end when you one day see them in the arms of another.
And what’s going to hurt even more is when you see them happy, smiling, and laughing again, knowing that it’s because of someone else and not you…
But remember, YOU made that CHOICE!
And it doesn’t matter what lies or stories you want to keep telling yourself or anyone else, that choice can’t ever be anyone else’s fault except for your own…
~ Mark Smith